Like as I have said before, if you’ve ever seen relationship and marriage that stood the test of tough time, the secret behind such is nothing, but total commitment to each other. Love and marriage blossoms and flourish when there is total commitment. I use the total commitment to stress the importance and intensity of the level of involvement of both parties to build the relationship.
It is not an easy task to discipline your self, and you don’t need a rocket science to know that relationship and marriage is a give and take process either. But the benefits of fully and totally committed to one person that you are sure to be in love with, and to free completely to turn your attention toward fulfilling your potential in the other areas of your life that needed improvement. Having one partner makes you focused in life.
Another area of relationship or marriage is the wiliness to be faithful to your partner, especially if you have only one partner in your life. I see no reason why argue this important fact, because if one is faithful, and the other is not, it is very bad indeed, because the faithful one will always feel cheated. Some people see faithfulness in relationship and marriage as act of cowardness , old fashioned and self-subjection to domination by your partner or to your partner.
While some think that they are either too huge, handsome or beautiful for one partner to trap in a corner of building in name of marriage or relationship, when they can have as many admirers out there to hang out with and have good time with the opposite sex. Am of the opinion that your partner is supposed to be the best of your best friends out there, who deserve to know the most secret of your life.
Faithfulness demands that you tell your partner, especially during relationship your past, because he or she is the person you have chosen to live the rest of your life with, among the thousands of toasters and admires that you’ve turned down.
Why Listening in relationship and Marriage is Important When both parties or couples listen attentively, and without interruption through communication channels, such that keen and serious attention is given to the other person as if a great and benefiting secret is about to be revealed or come out of your partner’s mouth, as you pose to assimilate them all, then great concern is assumed to have taken place.
Every partner wants a 100% attention, devoid of all possible distraction. You’ll do your self and the relationship as separate entity much good if you give the maximum attention required to deal with the development your partner all the time if your confession of love you both tell people is worth emulating.
Based on research findings available to me, the most important need among others that a woman demand from her man is attention and affection respectively. While attention require or demand that you as a man, you listen to detailed information by gi8ving a hundred percent attention required by her, then affection require that you simply put your self in her shoes-her position at that material point in time as your most valued that needed satisfaction which is the deepest sub-consciousness needs of every woman.
Women generally wants their men to make them feel respected, important and valued, irrespective of what the critics think or say. To them, when the above is given, all the other necessary priorities will fall in place effortlessly.
